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What tends to be your goal in a conflict with your spouse? Has anything in this lesson changed your perspective on conflict?
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I try very hard to keep quiet if we are having a disagreement. Once the words come out of your mouth, you can’t take them back.
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To have mutual respect for each other.
Things will never get even or who is right and who is wrong.
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Currently, my goal is usually to find out if it would be possible for me to achieve a goal that I have with his support, or if I need to give up on that goal or achieve it without his support. I know that the goal should be to have him and myself closer to God and I do hope to make that more central to my thinking in the midst of conflicts. I am familiar with the Jeremiah verse and need to apply it here. Often conflict comes when I am tired and resting and having reserve to do what he needs or asks is key to decreasing conflict.
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I inherently always focus on being correct and that makes me forget about her feelings
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I prefer not to have a conflict, but if it happens my goal will be to tray to solve it, which sometimes I think that my approach is not working effectively.
It has touched some areas that I have to work on and improve in.
