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Lesson OneChoosing the Future Over the Past3 Activities1 Assessment
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Lesson TwoChoosing Unselfishness over Selfishness3 Activities1 Assessment
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Lesson ThreeChoosing to Not Make Assumptions3 Activities1 Assessment
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Lesson FourChoosing to Communicate3 Activities1 Assessment
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Lesson FiveTransforming Your Marriage for a Lifetime3 Activities1 Assessment
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Course Wrap-UpCourse Completion1 Activity1 Assessment
Discussion Questions
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Is there anything that makes it difficult to hope for a better future in your marriage? How do you think you can let go of this?
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22 Replies
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It is hard to trust and forgive. But I do have hope for our future.
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Nothing makes it difficult for me to have that hope now or in the future.
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I let go the past and reflect on things that happened anchoring on Micah 6:8 To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God. I can only turst things happened for a reason that God allows. However, It takes two to tango and cannot work on improving it if the other party is not willing to.
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I am very fortunate that I have a good marriage, and my husband is actually my best friend. I will continue to try and hold my tongue and not speak or say anything while I am upset or in a disagreement.
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I need to forgive the leave the past, trust that he will change.
I cannot change the past, but we can work together for the days & years aheads.
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What tends to be your goal in a conflict with your spouse? Has anything in this lesson changed your perspective on conflict?
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21 Replies
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Usually, I just want the conflict to end so I give in to what he wants. This lesson has made me think about the reasons there has been conflict and how I could have handled things better.
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At beginning winning the argument but after getting worts change to win win solution
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To see the full picture of what is causing the conflict. For us to be able to see the issue from the others perspective. To discuss the conflict and eventually resolve the conflict. The lesson confirmed that we are approaching conflict in a healthy and proper manner.
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My goal in conflict to is be heard but also to understand his perspective, even when it requires a pause.
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May be the bar is set too low in just wanting to open up the communication.