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Lesson OneChoosing the Future Over the Past3 Activities1 Assessment
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Lesson TwoChoosing Unselfishness over Selfishness3 Activities1 Assessment
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Lesson ThreeChoosing to Not Make Assumptions3 Activities1 Assessment
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Lesson FourChoosing to Communicate3 Activities1 Assessment
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Lesson FiveTransforming Your Marriage for a Lifetime3 Activities1 Assessment
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Course Wrap-UpCourse Completion1 Activity1 Assessment
Discussion Questions
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Is there anything that makes it difficult to hope for a better future in your marriage? How do you think you can let go of this?
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I feel that I would like us both to try to work on it , but he doesn’t want to collaborate
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It is difficult to hope for a better future in marriage when the same conflicts keep coming up. One can let go of this if a person believes it can change.
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Yes, I don’t see any hope unless my husband decides to work on the marriage with me.
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Yes, my husband can be very mean. We have been to counseling and it hasn’t helped.
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There has been a lack of intimacy in our marriage including hugging and kissing. I need’ to learn to do my expections as a wife or what I perceive to be my husband’s expectations and perhaps, there will be a change in this. I need to learn to have a servant’s heart and not expect anything in return.
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What tends to be your goal in a conflict with your spouse? Has anything in this lesson changed your perspective on conflict?
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Have mutual respect for each other. No need to get even or look at who is right and who is wrong. Any disagreement resolve it with love.
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to be correct. listen over speaking
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Probably I just want him to put a minimum effort at least in our relationship improvement
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The goal in a conflict with a spouse can be return the conflict with a more peaceful resolution. The process is very important in conflict.
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I used to always thInk that I should try to prove myself right. I would argue until I was blue in the face while my husband usually remains calm or walks away. He never used to do that but he does now. I guess I should say he defuses the situation. God has been working on my humility and patience and teaching me to avoid arguments. I’m seeing where my past behavior and actions are most of the problem in our marriage. My unmet needs may be met should I floow what God tells me His will is.